I am 27 years old, 5’5″ and my measurements are 32C – 22 – 34. Although I have lived in Canada most of my life, I was born and lived some of my early years in Central America. As such, I am fully bilingual in English and Spanish and am currently working on mastering the German language. I will be moving to Berlin, Germany in September 2020 for an exchange abroad, so your time with me in Toronto is ticking.

Rather than describing how smooth my skin is or how beautiful I need to convince you I am, I will trust you have eyes and leave the judgement of my physical beauty up to you. Let me tell you a story about me instead.

When I first joined this industry, I was convinced I had to be this fantasy token girl who dressed to the nines in fancy clothes and wore uncomfortable shoes. “Don’t be yourself, be what other people expect you to be.” While it certainly netted me fancy clients who took me on fancy dinners and equally as fancy excursions, I didn’t stop to consider that some of these people were outright unpleasant.

First off, do you have any clue how horrible it is to sit there, enduring conversation and pretending to like someone you have absolutely nothing in common with? Often for hours on end? I wanted to shoot myself! I finally had my tipping moment when I decided I no longer cared if it wasn’t the “right way”, all I wanted to do was stop the pretentious nature of everything I was doing and simply be myself!

Because of these early experiences, I have learned to be ruthless in my search for clients whose company I genuinely enjoy and who give me the freedom to be myself. Never again will I pretend to be someone I’m not with a person who I secretly want to strangle. I am looking for clients who seek to connect with me on a real human basis and want to get to know the real, unfiltered version of me that can sometimes be clumsy and trip over her own shoes and miss non-verbal cues to stop talking when she gets into a endless tangent about God knows what. 

These days, I take an extreme amount of pride in being a person you will never have to wonder, “Is she being genuine or faking it?” I have built a reputation in this industry for being a person of sky-high standards. If I choose to meet you, you should feel pretty special! It means I saw something especially attractive in you. I have an incredibly high rejection threshold and can confidently say I reject over 95% of people who try and book me.

I greatly strive for quality over quantity, and the frank truth is not many people are worth me meeting. I must warn you: If you want me to consider you for even a split second, the onus to prove you are a serious and real suitor is entirely on you. It is imperative for all my suitors to understand the risks and anxieties involved in this work, and if you’d like to have a positive experience with me, I ask you to prioritize my safety and comfort. Please respect my need for safety and put forth the effort to make sure I am comfortable with you. I promise you it will make a world of difference. I challenge you to try and convince me why you are someone worth meeting. Need a hand? My Guide to Booking an Escort will walk you through the process.

If you make it as far as an actual date, how about we get to know each other over a few drinks? I will never say no to a fine glass of red wine and luckily know some of the best wine bars Toronto has to offer. Wherever you’d like the evening to take us, I am more than happy to host you at my upscale Yorkville incall or meet you at a location of your choice. We can even forgo the city life and head to the tropics, the beaches, or abroad to a brand new place neither of us has been to! The world is truly our oyster.

When I am not meeting with clients, I am a fierce and loud advocate for improving work conditions for sex workers. Working in an industry where provider safety is often overlooked as unimportant and exploited by many of the bad people out there, I do all I can to empower my colleagues to work smarter, have boundaries and build a healthy mental and financial business for themselves. Are you a provider? My guides on Saving Money and Detecting Emotional Manipulators might help you out. I also did a recent podcast interview on Screening & Safety you can feel free to check out to learn more about my views!

As a person, if I had to use a couple of words to describe myself, they would be: ambitious and driven. I’m not a person who coasts about life without purpose. Currently, my biggest aspiration is to get my PhD and work in the field of academic research. For the past three years, I have shaped my entire life around achieving this goal. It’s not a matter of “if” I get my PhD, it’s “when” I do. I’ve never wanted something as badly as I want this.

As such, companionship is not my full-time job. It is a part-time delicacy for me, something that fills the gaps around the rest of my busy life. School, of course, is where most of my energy goes towards. If you ever get the opportunity to meet me, you can expect an excited chatter about how much I love what I am studying.

Is that enough for now?! If you want to get to know me better, I highly recommend jumping over to my Twitter page. I am very active on the platform… almost as much as the current US President! 

Phew! Did you make it to the end of this long ramble? I’m so happy! How about making an actual date out of it? I hope to see you soon!

xoxo Stefania